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How to be Happy (Step 3)

November 22, 2024

Previously I wrote about gratitude and paying attention to your emotional weather (self-awareness) as steps or keys to being a generally happy person. These are two things you can choose to do everyday, and that’s … Read more

How to be Happy (Step 2)

November 6, 2024

I last wrote that the first step to being a generally happy person would be to practice gratitude. Every day. Even just for 5 minutes as you start your day. It will re-train your mind … Read more

How to be Happy?

November 4, 2024

Be honest, if you do a snap poll of yourself, would you say you’re generally happy or unhappy? We have a shortage of happy people in the world, and sometimes I’m one of the not-happy … Read more

Developing Resilience #4

October 3, 2024

And finally, the 4th installment on building resilience each day. I bet you’re curious of why the delay? To sum up, I got a bit distracted by other responsibilities and challenges. I still have a … Read more

Developing Resilience #3

May 28, 2024

Previously I wrote about Being Calm and Being Confident as building blocks for resilient leadership. The third block of this resilient foundation is to Be Connected. Let’s take a look at what it means to … Read more

Developing Resilience #2

February 29, 2024

Be Confident. The first in this four-part series on leadership resilience focused on Being Calm. Being calm doesn’t mean being passive or non emotional. It is based on the reality that God is in control. … Read more

Developing Resilience #1

February 1, 2024

As I’ve talked to hundreds of leaders in recent years, one of the common words used to describe their emotional state is “exhausted”. Leading has never been easy, because you are fighting the gravitational pull … Read more

“He’s only mostly dead”

January 24, 2024

As Billy Crystal’s character Miracle Max said in “The Princess Bride”, “there’s a big difference between mostly dead and all dead…Mostly dead is slightly alive.” Like the “slightly alive” farm boy Westley, this site has … Read more

More on courage and fear

December 31, 2019

For the past few months I’ve been reflecting on the statement in 2 Timothy 1:7 – “for God has not given us a spirit of timidity, but of power and love and discipline.” (NASV) God … Read more

Fear and Courage

January 13, 2019

No one wants to be afraid.  Fear can be paralyzing.  But it can also help to activate us toward courage and faith, if we identify it and bring it before the Lord.  Often in Scripture … Read more